The first negotiation episode sparked some interesting replies. Thank you!
Here are my notes from a follow-up conversation with a friend.
I tend to agree:
- Negotiation is built on trust
- Seek to understand incentives
- Don't assume your incentives are the same as theirs
- People are motivated by looking good
- Ideally, both sides need to "win"
- Try to turn single-issue negotiations into multi-issue ones
- If you're going to bluff, have something in your hand
- It usually helps to write things down
- To make things less personal, negotiate on behalf of someone / something else
- For verbal agreements, assume the best
- For written contracts, assume the worst
- Identify one-off vs. continuous negotiations
- Asymmetric information poses risks
- Humans have natural instincts towards cooperation, selfishness, and altruism (see: Prisoner's Dilemma)
re: the "Prisoner's Dilemma" ☝
Please keep the feedback coming.
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